Chronology

Dear John,

You asked me the other day if people "way long ago in the old days" had computers.  I told you they did not.  You thought about this for a moment and then told me, "So they had to just look at the pictures on their cameras."

It took me a moment to realize you were visualizing a past without the computers, but with the other digital technology.

I love the way your mind thinks!

Love,
Mom

Creative Boy

Dear John,

You made your first board game the other day.  (Well, except that it had no board.)  Each player had to roll the dice and different things happened on different numbers.  On one number, you would "get the flu" and lose two turns.  On another number you could pick up these things that were like points.  On another number, you would get to steal points from another player.  On another number, the alligator would chase you... which had no game play significance other than you got to pretend to eat your own token, or mine, with a paper alligator.

I was impressed.

Love,
Mom

John the Builder

Dear John,

When you grow up, you want to be a builder.  This was after a worried conversation about how you would learn to build things and whether there would be a team working with you and how you would go about finding such a team.

When you are a grown-up and a builder, we are to call you "John the Builder" or just "Builder."

This is because you will be wearing builder clothes and if we do not call you by the name "Builder" then people will just think you are dressed up for no reason.

At home, though, if it's just the family, we can call you "John."

But not if there is company.  In front of company, we must call you "Builder."

Love,
Mom

More Lego

Dear John,

You made your first really purposeful creation today.  It's Joker's Airplane and you would hold up specific pieces and tell me exactly how many more you needed of that piece for your airplane.  I was very impressed.

You are such a smart little boy!

Love,
Mama

Lego

Dear John,

You have loved Lego for some time now, but you usually get me to assemble the set and then you carefully play with it.

Later, though, I expect to be asked when you first started following Lego directions yourself.

The answer, as it turns out, is just after you turned four.

Love,
Mom

Ballet or Play?

Dear John,

We took you and your sister to see the ballet version of Snow White today and you were most disappointed!  The queen and the off-stage voice of the mirror both spoke and the dwarves moved in a jump/skip and not in fluid dance movements.  Halfway through the production, you announced (loudly), "Hey, you said this was a ballet!  This is not a ballet, this is a play!"

I found it so interesting that you would, at three, understand the distinction and I myself had wondered about the dialogue... I had never before heard a ballet include any speaking roles.

Then, after the show, when your sister was asking about your favorite character (hers was the evil queen), you said the mirror.  The mirror, your sister explained, was not a character.  We did not take the time to explain about props, however, because you immediately rebutted, "It was a character!  It talked!"

So there you go.  At the age of three, you have had enough exposure to the arts to argue the difference between a play and a ballet and know that inanimate objects can be characters.

I love you, smart boy!

Love, Mom

Setting the Stage

Dear John,

We went by Southwestern today.  I needed to take care of some things in preparation for a field trip with my students next month.  One of those things was looking at the Fine Arts Building to see what kind of art they have displayed and to make sure it is 3rd grade appropriate.  (It was.)

On our way through the Fine Arts Building, though, we saw something magical happening.  A group of people were "making a play."  (They were creating the set.)

You and your sister insisted on watching them.  We asked permission and then you sat, entranced, as a man cut foam boards to look like cement molding and a woman sponge painted faux bricks to give them depth.

That your six year old sister had the attention span for this was not surprising to me; that you did was.  In fact, we eventually left because she was bored... not because of you.

You asked about the tools and the ladders.  You wanted to know about the buildings and the props.  Why did they have a trash can?  (It was part of the street scene.)  Why was that door in the air?  (They would probably add stairs later.)

Then the man (I think he was the professor) showed you the most amazing thing ever... the building the woman was painting moved and you could see the inside!  (It was a flower shop... a little flower shop... full of horrors, I'm afraid.)

On our way out, another woman came out and the man told us she was in the show.  I recognized her as the actress who played Mouse in A Year with Frog and Toad which we saw in the fall.  So I prompted you, saying, "Can you tell her what you know?"

To which you replied, as is now our family joke, with the line from that show, "Toad looks funny in a bathing suit!"

The actress laughed!

You beamed.

I wonder if you will like the theater even more as you get older.  I noticed with The Nutcracker that you were even more enthralled by it than your sister.  I think it could be a fun outlet for your busy mind and intense emotions.

Think about it.

Love,
Mom